50 Things Every Woman Should Have By Age 50


This week we’re talking about places to travel and things to do. We love this article found by Two Southern Sweeties – 50 things every women should have by the age 50. Especially number 46!

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  1. An old boyfriend who makes you smile with melancholy when you remember him and an old boyfriend who makes you proud of how far you’ve come.
  2. A piece of furniture that has never been previously owned by anyone in your family that you bought with your own money and makes you happy.
  3. An outfit that makes you feel invincible if your future employer or man of your dreams calls to meet you in an hour.
  4. A set of lingerie that you would not be ashamed to be seen wearing.
  5. At least one scar on your heart where HE hurt you.
  6. A past juicy enough that you’re looking forward to retelling it in your old age.
  7. The realization that you are actually going to have an old age — and some money set aside to help fund it.
  8. An email address, a voice mailbox, and a bank account — all of which nobody has access to but you.
  9. A dream so big it scares you.
  10. At least one friend who always makes you laugh and one who lets you cry.
  11. A set of screwdrivers, a cordless drill, and a pair of totally unpractical shoes.
  12. Something ridiculously expensive that you bought for yourself, just because you deserve it.
  13. The belief that you are worthy of treating yourself with respect.
  14. A skin-care regimen, an exercise routine, a push-up bra and a great pair of spanx.
  15. At least one recipe you cook well to impress the fussiest of guests.
  16. A place to go just to think… where you can be completely alone with your thoughts.
  17. At least one child who looks to you for guidance and advice… even if he or she isn’t your own.
  18. The knowledge on how to break-up with a man or confront a friend without losing your temper or your self respect.
  19. At least one lover who knew exactly how to touch you to make your toes curl.
  20. The memory of a kiss so powerful… just the thought of it could sustain you into old age.
  21. The medical history that runs in your family so you can take care of YOU!
  22. The ability to live on your own and not be dependent on anyone.
  23. An outfit that feels like you are in a cocoon and safe from the world… it’s usually fleece or flannel.
  24. The ability to let go of the hurts from your childhood and embrace the fact that your parents did the best they could with the skills they had.
  25. One secret that makes you smile.
  26. A memory that makes you cringe… because those memories were lessons that brought you to here.
  27. A journal full of your deepest thoughts.
  28. A person you can call at 4 in the morning because you’re in a bind.
  29. The knowledge of what you are willing to accept and what you are not in a relationship.
  30. Something you do that’s just for you and no one else.
  31. A piece of jewelry that has sentimental meaning.
  32. An older woman in your life who embodies the traits you wanna develop in your old age.
  33. A spirituality that feeds your spirit and nourishes your soul.
  34. A soundtrack to your life that when you hear it on the radio you sing at the top of you lungs.
  35. Someone or something you LOVE with your whole heart.
  36. A to-do list that never gets completely checked off.
  37. Enough money to run away in case you have to.
  38. A purpose to rise out of bed every morning.
  39. The ability to look in a mirror and love the ripples and bumps and wrinkles that stare back at you… because you earned them all over time.
  40. The ability to say NO without having to add anything further.
  41. A hobby that you can get lost in for hours.
  42. A hole in your heart from losing someone you have loved deeply…
  43. Done at least one thing kind for someone that has no way to ever repay your kindness…
  44. A “Been there – Done that” T-shirt to starting over from scratch… whether it be from a divorce, a career change, a massive loss or surviving life’s curve ball.
  45. A photo album full of memories… even if it’s on a flash drive or saved to the cloud.
  46. A passport… Up to date and ready to be stamped for the next adventure.
  47. At least one grey hair, wrinkle and saggy body part… If you don’t… Something’s wrong.
  48. An accomplishment that’s all yours… outside of your children, not tied to your spouse… something you have done or created all on your own.
  49. The knowledge of who you are as a woman. What makes you happy and what is no longer tolerated.
  50. The understanding that 50 is not over the hill…its not even close to the hill… There is no hill even on the horizon… cuz you still have shit to do…


  1. Cindy

    March 27, 2017 at 8:56 am

    Thank you for this wonderful list of things every woman should have. I pretty much have them all and you reminded me how blessed I am to possess these beautiful gifts and to be a woman.

  2. Donnalyn Coyne

    April 1, 2017 at 1:15 pm

    Beautiful! Over 50, feeling fabulous and grateful for every single year, especially for the ones I am blessed, enough, to have today!! Life lessons, love and acceptance, of self, took me a long time to discover! All of this has made me the person, the woman and the true, free spirit of the heart, able to love, be kind and helpful, today! Gratitude is where I choose to live, just for today! Greatest thing I’ve ever learned is that I know nothing even though I’ve had so many teachers!!!
    If there is any wisdom I do have today it is all due to the fact I remain teachable, curious and I do not f
    ear to love, today!?????????????❤️??????????‍♀️?‍♀️???Laughter is the best medicine, grateful I had that, long ago, and choose it every day….TODAY! Beautiful friends, love me, for me, despite me…TODAY❌⭕️

    • Donnalyn Coyne

      April 1, 2017 at 1:21 pm

      This is one of the greatest reads that I have truly connected to in some time! As I mentioned in my previous post…Today, LOVE is the answer! Life, is what happens to me while I’m busy making other plans! Thank you, John Lennon!! Today, I live and try to never miss the moments!???‍♀️?‍♀️????❤️??❌⭕️

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